What should a proposal for a hand in marriage look like? And how do you choose the right engagement ring?

If you've found the right one, there's only one thing left to do. Ask her to marry you! But how do you do that?

And how can you be sure that your chosen one will say "YES" to you? Don't worry, it's not rocket science. You need to think about two main things that will ensure your success: the engagement ring and the suitable place.

CHOOSING AN ENGAGEMENT RING

Choosing an engagement ring for your girlfriend is a really big deal. You are asking a woman to spend the rest of her life by your side. For most girls, this piece of jewellery has great symbolism, if only because it should adorn them for the rest of their lives. According to the unwritten rule, the engagement ring should be worth 3 months of the man's salary. However, it is not mandatory!

What should it look like? Most often, it has a simple, smooth frame or small decoration. The main role here is played by the central stone, which is most often colourless. The most used are diamonds, which are almost indestructible and eternal. This gemstone is a symbol for FOREVER connection. However, you can also choose from other precious stones such as white sapphire, topaz, moissanite, or even coloured gemstones. When choosing, it is good to know what stone or colour your future wife prefers.

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If in doubt, stick with traditional white. A diamond is a safe bet. If you do not want to invest in a natural stone, reach for a new generation gemstone - moissanite. Although it has very similar properties, it is not a substitute for diamond. You can learn more about these most commonly used gemstones in our article.

You can choose the design of the engagement ring from many ready-made models. But if you know that your chosen one does not like to go with the crowd and you want something special for her, design her own original engagement ring using a 3D programme. The visualisation will take place right in front of you, and you can determine each change in the ring yourself.

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RING SIZE

If you have the opportunity to measure her finger, or secretly borrow her ring and use paper to measure the inner diameter in millimetres = her size, buying a ring and possibly adjusting it later will be much easier. But if this option is not available, don’t worry. Most goldsmiths will be able to adjust the ring size for you even afterwards. With our How to find out the correct ring size guide, you can easily manage everything.

Our advice: It is better to choose a larger size. Downsizing is much easier than enlarging a ring.

CHOOSING A SUITABLE PLACE FOR THE ENGAGEMENT

Both engaged people remember specifically two things from their engagement: the place and the feelings. You can fully influence both. When choosing a place ask yourself these two questions: Do you have a favourite place to hang out? Does your partner feel better in public places, or does she prefer privacy?

Don't underestimate the right choice of location!

For example you can propose to her:

At a party among friends, but also in a public place or in a restaurant among a bunch of strangers who will be amazed by your courage.
At her favourite place. Take her to the place where you went on your first date or your first vacation.
On a trip - Paris is the city of love. Tell her you just bought a trip to Paris. She will surely enjoy it like a little girl.
Does your chosen one feel much better in private? Make sure to propose when there is only the two of you!

We also want to remind you of other little things that will help you fine-tune your proposal to perfection:

Don't forget to gift your girlfriend a beautiful bouquet.
Don't forget the old habit. Get down on one knee and propose. You are showing respect to the woman.
It is not necessary to prepare a long speech. The more gifted can also recite a poem. But believe me, even just getting down on one knee combined with a simple "Will you marry me?" will take her breath away.
After the act, take a photo together or ask someone to take your picture.

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WHAT CAN RUIN THE PROPOSAL ACCORDING TO WOMEN?

Drunkenness - feel free to take a shot of courage, but definitely don't overdo it with alcohol!
A significant day is not always the best choice! If your sweetheart really loves a birthday parties, for example, and you try to stop it off with a proposal, she may not be as happy as you wished.
Wrong place! Up to one third of women are dissatisfied with the place where the proposal took place. They didn't find it romantic enough.
Copying - CAUTION! Never copy a friend's proposal. Especially if it's a mutual friend of yours. Feel free to be inspired by it, but be careful that your request is original in some way. No woman wants to be the next…
Obligation! Never ask for a hand in marriage out of obligation. Forget the line, "Let's get married." Either don't do it at all, or be a man and do the right thing.